Read this before having sex with your partner.

Anjali Tumare
3 min readSep 29, 2020

What is sex?

sex means different things to different people . Above All , it is healthy and natural activity.it is something most people enjoy and find meaningful even if they create meaning in different way

Are you unsure about your sexual interests? are you curious about what you might enjoy ? Are you wondering if you ready for sex ? these kind of question are perfectly normal .

sex is not just a vaginal* intercourse .Sex is pretty much anything that feel sexual . How you choose to define sex might be a moving target during your teen years. your sexual interests may change over time, and that’s okay too.

Am i ready for the sex

You’ve got sex on the brain, but you’re not sure you’re ready.

You’re not the only one! Having sex can be a major step in your life and it deserves some thought and planning. Everyone is different and only you can decide what’s best for you.

Here are some questions that may help you explore whether you and your partner are feeling ready to have sex. You may be surprised at some of your answers.

Questions to ask yourself if you are thinking about having sex for the first time

  • Is this the right time for me?
  • Am I comfortable with my own body?
  • What do I know about sex? Have I done my homework? Do I know the difference between sex myths and sex facts? (Tip: If you feel like you need to know more, check out the other sections of this website.)
  • Do I know how to protect myself from unplanned pregnancy and/or sexually transmitted infections (STIs)?
  • Do I feel safe and comfortable with my partner?
  • Am I feeling pressured into having sex ?
  • Am I attracted to my partner?
  • What are my boundaries? What activities am I not comfortable with?
  • What are my hopes and fears about sex?

Questions to talk about with your partner

  • How do we feel about sex? What are our hopes for the experience? Are they the same?
  • Have we had any negative experiences with sex in the past?
  • Do we have any fears or worries about sex?
  • Do we feel safe and comfortable with each other?
  • Do we need protection against unplanned pregnancy and/or STIs and if so, what type will we choose?
  • Have we talked about the words we want to use for our body parts?
  • Do we expect our relationship will change after we have sex? How?
  • Are we okay if one partner decides to stop when we are having sex?

useful tip:-

Sex, like any other skill, takes practice. Try not to freak out if things don’t go perfectly the first time. Good sex is a lifelong experience and can be lots of fun if you play safe, relax and enjoy yourself.

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Anjali Tumare
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Engineering student ,writer, your thought design your life, have a wise choice